"Fat"

I ABSOLUTELY HATE the word "fat". I think for others to call a stranger "fat" is such a low blow. That person may be overweight but you have no idea what he or she is going through. That person may be struggling with thyroid issues or an enlarged liver... or health issues that they cannot control. They might have a ton of stress or family situations that are happening.

I think before saying someone is "ugly" or "fat" you should definitely take a look at yourself and find out if you are perfect. I hate how guys use that term loosely too. They will be quick to say, "ugh she fat and ugly" as if talking about a female or best friend like that will put you at ease. Honestly, if you are fine with your
boyfriend calling someone else fat or ugly, YOU should be ASHAMED of yourself.

Whether someone is "fat" or "ugly" I am sure they have one of the best personalities and are probably totally secure with themselves especially having to deal with others who criticize and judge them on a daily basis.

I have met plenty of people who had nasty attitudes regardless of their looks or weight. Before judging someone, definitely get to know them. Before pointing out their flaws, think about yours. I noticed that the ones who like to openly put others down have a lot of problems of their own that they
are too lazy to solve themselves.

Don't worry about what others say. As long as you are making steps to improve your outer energy and attitude... everything else is pretty much a piece of cake.

Next Topic: Talking Behind Others' Backs. NOBODY is innocent on this topic. haha! I am totally guilty.

Xoxo,
Tatiana